For at about 3 to 4 years now, I have frowned at new years resolutions. While a lot of people still uphold this “useless” tradition, I have come to realize that most of us (yes, that includes you and I) have a huge misconception or misunderstanding of the whole “New Year’s Resolutions” thingy.
We call them by several different names… resolutions, to-accomplish lists, goals, to-do lists, missions, tasks, and so on. Whatever name you choose to go by, they basically all mean the same thing.
Nevertheless, one fact remains the same: Less than 30% of people actually follow through on their resolutions! These are the ones who truly understand what is going on here, and they understand how to reach their goals, year after year.
This year I decided to take a different approach to New Year’s Resolutions and goals. At the end of the process, I have completed my list of goals for 2016.
I have also decided to make my list public (like I did for my Christmas List for 2015). So I welcome you all to be my accountability partners this year, and follow me through each of these goals.
I call it my “Bucket List” because these are the things I will like to do before the year dies out. As I complete each goal, I will cross them off the list and we will see how far I will go by the end of the year.
My Bucket List for 2016
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FOCUS FOR THE YEAR
These are the things that the year is going to be all about for me. So I’m focusing on THREE major goals, rather than scattering my energy across to many things.
- DeQeo Consulting (my Study Abroad Agency)
Follow up FridayScholarship Sunday; 52 blog posts by Dec. 31 (13% done)(I decided to drop this goal)- Register at least 50 students abroad (6% done)
Nigerian Blog Reviews(I decided to drop this goal)Launch of Nigerian Blog Reviews (April 4th)Weekly blog reviews until launch (40% done)
- Help at least 10 people reach their goals for 2016 (40% done)
ACTS OF RANDOM KINDNESS (ARK)
*Give someone all the money in your wallet*Apologize to someone you offended- Buy a drink for a bus driver
- Buy a drink for a construction worker
- Buy a drink for the next person in line
*Buy a drink for a traffic warden- Buy ice cream for the next person in line
*Do someone a favor*Donate blood*Give someone directions- *Give someone the benefit of the doubt
- Help an injured person
- Help someone carry something
- Help someone carry something heavy
*Leave a good tip after eating- Make a get well card
- Pay the bus fair for the next person
- Pick up trash from the side walk
- Return a dropped object
- Return a forgotten object
- Return a lost object
- Share your umbrella
- Stick up for someone
*Tell someone you love them*Visit someone sick(x3)- Write a thank you letter to a teacher
- Visit an orphanage
*Hold the door open for someone(x2)*Help someone with some change- Give someone flowers
- Give a worker a drink
*Buy a snack for someone hungry
TARGET GOALS
These are goals with a specific target
10,000 push ups(102% done)5,000 minutes of movies, including animations and TV series, excluding cartoons(145% done)Read at least 800 articles (20% done)(I read so much, I’m not able to keep track anymore)- Answer at least 400 questions on Quora (11% done)
Give least 20 strangers (excluding friends) free rides in my car, as close to their destinations as possible(130% done)Carry at least 20 strangers down the road with my car, excluding friends(135% done)Publish at least 1 blog post weekly; 52 posts by Dec. 31(100% done)- Weekly Gratitude Blog (52 Weeks of Gratitude Challenge) post (48% done)
Write 1 thing I’m grateful for, daily(100% done)Make 1 handcraft each month; 12 crafts by Dec. 31 (17% done)(I decide to drop this goal)Write 1 LinkedIn recommendation each week month; 52 12 added by Dec. 31 (8% done)(I decide to drop this goal)
ONE-TIME GOALS
These are goals I have to do just once
NORMAL, RANDOM & CRAZY STUFF
*Write letter for future self (to read at the end of the year) written on 18/04/2016*Do something significant for my church- Code Happiness Calculator/Tool
- Code Active/Inactive Facebook Friends’ Calculator/Tool
*Leave the country at least once (visited India)See Photos HerePublish Book (Knights Have to Endure Memes Everyday)I’ve decided to drop this goal*Update my CV
ONE-TIME GOALS (STOLEN LIST)
Do one thing you’re afraid to doApologize for one thing you need to apologize for- Start one thing you’ve always planned to start
Tell one person how awesome they are- Prove one person wrong
Ask one person for helpOffer to help one person- Do one thing no one else is willing to do
- Just once, refuse to care what other people think
Tell one person yesTell one person no(x2)“Fire” one personOne time, just let it fly- Do one thing that’s not your job
Embrace one thing another person does- Do something foolish
- Call your parents
ONGOING GOALS
Try to always pick up my phone, no matter WHO callsChange my passwords every 3 months(I’ve decided to drop this goal)Record at least 1 second of videoEndorse all my contacts on LinkedIn(I’ve decided to drop this goal)Start reading the news (or at least headlines)Never give less than 100 naira as offeringUpdate the progress of this list weekly
LEARNING
- Learn to do a full split
Learn to cook jollof riceLearn to cook “rough stew”- Learn to whistle with my fingers and mouth
- Learn to make pancakes
BUYS
- Fitted black suit
- Pebble watch
- RC Drone
- Car stereo for Kito
- Forex EA
OPTIONAL STUFF
- Buy Tecno windows tablet
- Buy Tecno Phantom 5 (then give current phone to someone)
- Buy Spy video glasses