These are lessons learned from my personal life, and in the lives of everyone I cross paths with in this world.
There’s always something to learn from every experience we go through in life, and I just take advantage of that.
In the last decade or so, I have had to change my opinion and beliefs about certain things. I have had to unlearn and relearn, over and over again. And believe me when I say it is one of the most uncomfortable feelings in the world! Anyway, I met this woman on Facebook. She was quiet and reserved, kind of like I am. But she was different. This woman always gave me audience, no matter…
Anyone can build a successful relationship. Unfortunately though, not not everyone will enjoy a successful relationship. And the reason is simple… Success has a cost, and it is only those who are willing to pay the cost, who get to enjoy a successful relationship. Most of us are already “doing” one or more things to build our relationships and make them more successful. But I am not here to give you another list of more…
So you met someone new and things seem to be moving well with them. But there is one question bugging your mind. How can you know if your love interest is “the one”? One day I was trying to decide about a woman I had an interest in, and I got an epiphany! It became so clear why some women stood no chance with me, and why I stood no chance with some women. It…
There are certain topics that couples should discuss before they say “I do”. One of such topics is their history or their past. Should you share your history saying I do? What are some reasons to share your histories before marriage? People who have a past that they would like to hide, often prefer to “let sleeping dogs lie”. There are other people who believe that the past should remain what it is… history. But…
The first time I heard the words “toxic relationship” I was not quite sure what it meant. And ever since, I have tried to pay close attention my relationships to see if I could identify its traits. The funny thing about toxic relationships is that you may not be aware that you are in one. It usually happens with someone whose presence you are used to. They are in your life often, every day or…
If you are single, you must be familiar with the feeling of boredom, and sometimes loneliness. Sometimes, you can experience both feelings at the same time. I have been single for about seven years, so trust me… I know! But I will be honest with you. I hardly do get bored or lonely. I almost never get bored and lonely at the same time. It hardly does happen to me because I always have something…
Who do you think should do the spending and pampering in a relationship? The man or the woman? St. Valentine’s day was just last week… who did the spending and pampering in your relationship? Before I answer this question, let me explain something that causes unnecessary issues in relationships. Expectations As human beings, we go about our days with expectations. When we sit on a chair, we expect it to hold, and not break.…
Before I explain the meaning of “unintentionally unavailable“, let me brief you first. In the part of the world where I come from, it is generally believe that men should always do the chasing. Some even believe that it is a taboo for a woman to “chase” a man. But on the issue of men chasing women, here is what I actually believe. I have actually been “chased” by women on more than one occasion.…